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Sexuality

The confusion comes from peoples' need to belong to / be accepted into a collective group. A result of this need is labeling / definition. Once you label / define yourself, you now belong to a group. As a trade-off for belonging to this group, you limit yourself within the confines of the label / definition.

Define your sexual preferences = Set limits to your sexual preferences (proof)

I am...
A. Gay
B. Bisexual
C. Straight

People are born as A or B or C. A great many start at C due to expectations/pressure/mores/values from groups in their immediate surrounding. As they grow up, they start to ask questions about their sexuality probably because they feel as if something is amiss.

Depending the amount of fear (EMOTION) they harbor inside them, they tend to, starting from C:
1. Remain in C.
2. Dabble in B.
3. Jump to A.

Sometimes people do 1.
Sometimes people use 2 as a stepping-stone / transition-period towards A.
Sometimes people people become comfortable doing 2, without feeling the need to do 3.
Sometimes people go straight to 3.
Some people in A/C do 2, because of mere curiosity.



1st chart shows the barbaric and utterly inefficient way of defining sexuality, by creating specific labels depending on personal preferences. Notice I placed unnamed tabs so you can label them at your convenience. The 2nd chart is created to show how much of a genius I am. Should you decide to pick 1st chart to find out your sexual preference, you wind up limiting yourself according to the definition of that label. There is no room for compromise. Should you decide to pick 2nd to define your sexual preferences, the amount of people you can possibly have sex with is limitless! Bwa hahahaha!

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I went to a Star Trek convention about a decade ago. So much fun. The next time I go I wanna dress up as the Borg Queen and I'll bring a couple hundred of my minions friends along and have them dress up as drones. Then we'll spread out and do a flashmob style dance routine to Alejandro by Lady Gaga. Just thinking about it makes my ass pucker with excitement.

 

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It takes an intelligent person to learn something complex, but it takes a genius to be able to teach it to stupid people.

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I think the face has a lot to do with it. INTJs usually have either a scowl or an expressionless face. When INTJs are using the expressionless face, people can't read it. If you look at a happy face, you think "happy person." When you look at an expressionless face, you think "what the fuck is going on in there?" as if they can't pin down the INTJ based on looking at its face. The human brain and its tendency to fill in the blanks will take over. The observer will start to imagine all sorts of things that are going on in the INTJs head. Maybe it's not 'attraction' per se, it's curiosity; humans are curious about us.

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Filipinos and Insecurity

Ever notice that in every party or gathering you're in
...there always seems to be someone who is the "loudest" ??
...the one with the loudest voice
...the one with the wackiest outfit
...the one that just screams "notice me! notice me! look at me! look at me!"

Those are usually the people who are the most insecure.

I have noticed that Filipinos do that all too often
...that Black Eyed Peas song about Filipinos
...the Visionary Awards at the Kodak Theatre
...they also have their own 'Fiestas' in whatever country they are in
..."Look at us, we're FILIPINO, you guys!"

You don't see Americans going to Thailand and having a Thanksgiving Day Parade
...all the while saying "We're American! We're American! We're American!"

You don't see Germans going to Singapore and having an Oktoberfest celebration there
...all the while saying "We're German! We're German! We're German!"

You don't see Brazilians going to Hong Kong and having a Carnaval celebration there
...all the while saying "We're Brazilian! We're Brazilian! We're Brazilian!"

Why do Filipinos find this need to have Philippine celebrations in whatever country they are in
...they have their Fiestas in Germany and UAE
...it doesn't have to be Fiestas either it could be any 'group' activity that gets them noticed
...I wonder if it's true in the USA, UK, Singapore, and other countries as well


How... epal


How... insecure

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Filipinos make for such incredibly jealous lovers too
...have you ever heard a Filipino say to his partner "Go ahead and have fun..."

Instead you'll hear them say
..."Where are you going?"
..."How long will you be there?"
..."Who are you going with?"
..."What are you going to eat?"
..."What time are you coming back?"


So if you want a Filipino lover, get ready for that
...they're like blood-sucking parasites


How... insecure

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The Filipino Individual

Are Filipinos so blind to individuals?
...do they have a sense of individuality?
...do they have strong individual role models?

Standout individuals that come to mind are very few:
...Manny Villar (you don't really hear anyone saying 'The Villars...')
...Gloria Macapagal Arroyo (you don't really hear anyone saying 'The Arroyos...')
...Ferdinand Marcos (pre People Power)

You can also say they were corrupt, but that's beside the point
...the point is that these individuals reached the heights of power, and thus money

Other notable Filipino individuals are:
...Manny Pacquiao
...Charice Pempengco
...Cristeta Pacia-Comerford
...no offense if I missed any other ones you know of

You can't really say these individuals reached the 'heights of power'
...but they have reached the heights of individual personal achievement 
...they weren't part of a group or team
...but they are part of a strategic pairing

You could say
...Manny Pacquiao-Roach
...Charice Pempenco-Winfrey
...Cristeta Pacia-Comerford

There is an American behind those successful Filipinos
...and notice that those Americans have gladly taken backseats
...so the Filipino can get all the glory and success
...because Americans are secure
...they don't feel the need to be noticed for their contributions


Filipinos need to focus more on individuality
...and in doing so, they can then form an identity
...because the description of Filipinos right now is not looking so good


Description of Filipinos (please note the 's' at the end)

...insecure
......hyper-emotional
......never admit mistakes

...conservative (closet-liberal)
...full of excuses
...always late
...loves talking about problems
...loves to gossip
...never give direct answers
...never say 'no'


Filipinos hate being described like that
...and they should try to develop their individual identities that are separate from the group description
...don't represent your 'people'
...don't represent your 'country'
...represent yourself

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Maybe DEVELOPING INDIVIDUALITY should be added to school curricula
...as a core subject
...or at the very least, an elective

High school is when kids are supposed to develop their individuality
...but they wind up developing group-think instead

One reason for this is the school uniform
...take into account the definition of 'uniform'
...it suggests 'same-ness'

American High Schools and Colleges encourage individuality by allowing students to dress in civilian clothing
...with certain 'guidelines for decency' of course
...students are free to express themselves through clothing
...students are free to develop themselves without the need for 'books' or 'teaching'

Of course, the people who sell the uniforms will oppose this.

Another reason is because the 'classes' they have stay together for the entire school-day
...they wind up forming groups amongst themselves
...with no individuals in sight

In America, students usually stay together in one classroom for only 1 period
...around 1 hour long
...for their next subject, they all disperse and go to different classrooms
...and stay with different students
...this prevents them from forming groups inside the classroom
...they develop individuality instead

Whatever groups they involve themselves in get formed outside the classroom
...but inside the classroom, they are all individuals


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